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We are kids like you who want to help you with troubles you experience every day. we invite you to send us questions about situations that happen to you and you don't want to tell anyone else (you don't have to tell us who you are - actually we won't tell you who we are. we are going to go with nicknames).

 

 

 

 

What We Do

We solve problems by answering questions honestly.  We will share with you our thoughts and personal experiences. We hope you will find them useful.

Summer Notice:

 

We are taking a break for the summer,  But you are still welcome to send us questions using our email: 

questions@ advice-4-u.com

 

We would like to summarize for you the main strategies that we have been using in our meetings:

 

1. When you struggle with a problem, first thing to do is to figure out what your friend or parent(the person you have problem with) has in his/her "thinking bubble".

 

2. Remember you can change how the other person feels and think of you. 

 

3. Think of a way to change his/her thought by:

  • doing something nice for him/her
  • change your own behavior
  • Apologize
  • Explain what were you intentions
  • Rate your problem and reaction on a scale of 1 to 10, and make sure you are not over-reacting.If you do, think of ways to calm yourself down.
  •  Sometimes you just need to learn from experience. Even if you cannot fix it this time, you can plan ahead for next time.

The most important thing is not to get stuck! change your situation....remember you are in charge!